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Make
your Resolutions a Reality with Hypnotic NLP
By Matthew Ferguson
We've
all done it, made a resolution and in a fit of urgent
determination we vow to get fit, join the gym, stop
smoking or change some other unwanted habit. Then, quicker
than we can say "to hell with it" our old behaviour
and old self re-surfaces and with a sigh of resignation
we return to our old patterns.
Sound
familiar? If it doesn't read no further for you are
one of the rarest of beings.
If,
on the other hand, the first paragraph is oh so familiar
read on because what I am about to tell you will help
you change your life!
Do
not make resolutions. They are pre-destined to fail
in most cases. Instead make a New You. Let me explain.
I am not suggesting a full scale change of personality
and character. What I am suggesting is building a stronger
self image and self belief and this is much easier than
it sounds. It does take commitment to yourself. It does
take persistence and it will mean using your brain.
There are no magic diets or magic pills or magic of
any kind, except the magic you already possess in your
brain/mind. This is a magic you can rely on when you
use it with determination and in ways that are both
pleasurable and rewarding as you move toward and achieve
your goals.
The
first thing to understand and accept is that you are
the luckiest creature alive. No matter what you might
believe right now. You have between your ears the most
exquisite thing in the known universe, your brain. What
is more, it not only creates your reality, it's potential
can be harnessed to achieve your goals in life. But
there is one proviso - you must believe it can!
So
many seemingly impossible things have been and will
be achieved by people who know this and accept the fact
that only they can do it. No pills, no Gurus, no fads.
So
how did they, how do they, how will you do it?
They
had a belief. A belief that said even though things
may be challenging now, if I am persistent on my chosen
path, I will succeed. They knew what they wanted. They
had a direction and a strategy to follow. They knew
this in a special way, with both their conscious desire
and their unconscious process at a level that engaged
their imagination.
With
their mind's imagination they can connect their conscious
desires to their unconscious abilities and make their
dreams come true. And you can too because we all have
a brain and if we use it for a change we can! As Einstein
said "imagination is more important than knowledge".
Here
are 4 Steps to make your resolutions a reality using
Hypnotic NLP
Step
one:
Find somewhere you can relax and won't be disturbed.
Listen to some soft ambient music and begin to relax.
Focus your mind on the smooth flow of your breath as
you let your muscles relax gently from head to toe,
imagining a place of comfort to you. Go inside and drift
down in comfort. Take all the time you need to become
completely immersed in the experience of relaxation.
Step
two:
Create a realistic image of yourself. One that you know
in your heart is really achievable, be brave make it
how you want it to be. Know that what you believe is
what you become. Make that image or feeling strong and
as clear as possible with colours and sounds; be right
inside that image with your imagination under your command
going in the direction of your hearts desire.
Step
three:
See what it takes, feel how good it feels to do what
is right for you to become that image; immerse yourself
in that image and enjoy the fact that you are in control.
Experience it as already done; it is just a matter of
time as you do what is right to achieve your goal.
Step
four:
Relax even more as you determine to be persistent and
tenacious in your resolve to make the change you desire.
If
you use your imagination/mind in this way consistent
changes will happen and you will finally keep your Resolutions!
Read more articles by Matthew Ferguson
Matthew Ferguson SQHP
(Clinical hypnotherapist, Trainer of Hypnotherapy and NLP, Stress Consultant and Authentic Happiness Coach) Matthew runs a training school in Scotland teaching Hypnotherapy, NLP and Coaching to learn more visit www.motivationtraining.co.uk If you are a Facebook user please click on our Follow us on Facebook button at www.motivationtraining.co.uk and click the like button. You will be kept up to date with the latest articles, information and free downloads.
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